Dealing With Relationship Paranoia
How would you deal with a woman who just broke off a long term relationship and you and her are together now?
Allright, here’s the deal. The woman in question broke it off with her long time (2 year) boyfriend and started dating me right away, like 24 hours right away. Now, I know they are still communicating with each other which I don’t mind, but now I am kind of paranoid that she will go back to him. She really won’t commit to anything with me, but wants to be exclusive. We have known each other for about six months now and have been “seeing” each other for the last month. We slept together within the first 72 hours after I found out she was interested in me. Should I just be patient with her and let her “get over” her X or should I be pushing for some sort of commitment on her part? I have really liked her for a long time, and this relationship is kind of like a dream come true for me. I really love and care for her and she says the same. However, I still have this feeling of paranoia about her X. Give me some advice! Thanks in advance!
It might be that she really cares about you,
but chances are that she is on the rebound…
and since you have been “caring” for her for a long time she might use that to have ‘someone’ in her life until she and x gets back or until something new comes along…
I had a boyfriend for two years, we broke up and in a matter of days i started dateing on of my best guy friends… it didnt last very long coz i realized i was just using him to get over my x
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