Paranoia Of Being Sick
How does a woman get over constant jealousy/paranoia of her boyfriend being around other women?
I hate to admit this, but I have this constant worry at the back of my mind, that my boyfriend is/has/will cheat on me. It’s ridiculous, because if I changed boyfriends, it would be the same situation –> it is men I do not trust in general. I know I should, but the truth about how guys THINK, is too much for me. It is this simple fact, that drives me to worry constantly. My boyfriend is sick of being jokingly accused constantly by me, but I can’t help it. Good chance I’m overreacting, but do any other women feel the same way?
Why is it ok for a man to check out other women “because it’s hardwired into their brains”, and to have wild bachelor parties, when women who truly care about their men don’t want to check out other guys, and don’t want wild bachelorette parties? The differences are frustrating.
You may be the problem — or— you may Not be the problem. some guys are a lot more evolved about ogling women in the presence of another women, especially their sweetheart. What they feel is one thing, but expressing it is bad manners. Especially after being aware it bothers you. It is also a question of maturity. Men get more sensitive to such things as they learn more about women and learn more respect for feelings period.
Some guys spend too much time with old girlfriends, girl “friends”, etc, then mindf— their girlfriend into thinking she’s the problem. Watch out for second-guessing yourself too much. Maybe you need a more gentlemanly guy.
Deaf Royalty – Happy Deathday – Paranoid Sessions
